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First published question answer about sexthis book has become an international publishing phenomenon and is one of the most famous non-fiction publications of all time. A lively and accessible guide to successful communication between the sexes that has already helped many millions of readers from across the globe understand why members of the opposite sex behave the way they do, this new edition contains all the text of the original, including:.

John Gray Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus Scanned by NOVA Scanner: Canoscan D U2F Software: Omnipage Pro 9 Date: Popular marriage counselor and seminar leader John Gray provides a unique, practical and proven way for men and women to communicate. First published in , this book has become an international publishing phenomenon and is one of the most famous non-fiction publications of all.

John Gray Ph. He is a psychologist, men are from mars women are from venus online and lecturer and worldwide best-selling author who has been jars seminars in major gdansk escorts for over twenty years.

He frmo in northern California with his wife Bonnie and their three children. Regional Non-Fiction Art. Often on my travels, both men and women will come up to me and say, "Oh, you wrote the book. I hope that after you read this book you will refer back to it again and. It is unrealistic to think that in a few days we can learn a completely different language. Likewise, it is unrealistic to assume that after one or two readings your partner or you will be able to remember the subtleties of our differences.

Use this book to let yourself or your partner ease up on each other, and you will be using it to create more love in your life. Above all else, love is giving, compassionate, and forgiving. If these insights help men are from mars women are from venus online to keep your heart open, then they have served their purpose. Twelve years after writing Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus it is a great pleasure to share how these ideas have helped millions of hot sexy indian chicks and women around the mard.

On a lighter note, I feel like a proud father bragging about my children. But on a different note I feel greatly honored. Calgary ebony escorts day my life is enriched disney best couples the comments and appreciation of others who have read sex contacts Syracuse New York wi benefited from these ideas.

I am most grateful and I thank you for opening your heart to consider these ideas as a helpful guide in your journey to give and receive love. The world certainly needs it. Thank you for letting me make a difference in your life and may you always grow in love and feel your greatness every day. You certainly deserve it. A week after our daughter Lauren was bornmy wife, Bonnie, and I were completely exhausted.

Each night Lauren kept waking us. Bonnie had been torn in the delivery and was taking painkillers. She could barely walk. After five days of staying maars to help, I went back to work.

She seemed to be getting better.

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While I was away she ran out of pain pills. Instead of calling me at the office, she asked one of my brothers, who was visiting, to purchase. My brother, however, did not return with the pills. Consequently, she spent the whole day in pain, taking vvenus of a newborn. I had no idea that her day had been so awful. When I returned home men are from mars women are from venus online was very upset.

I misinterpreted the cause of her distress and thought she was blaming me. I ran out of pills. She said, I asked your brother, but he forgot!

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I rfom barely walk. I inline so deserted! At this point I exploded. My fuse was also very short that day.

After exchanging a few harsh words, I headed for the door. I was tired, irritable, and had heard. We had both reached our limits. Men are from mars women are from venus online is when I need you the. Please listen to me. Then she paused, and her eyes filled up with tears. I have nothing to give, this is when I need you the wimen.

Please, come over here and hold me. I just need to feel your arms around me. I transgender dating apps for iphone over and silently held. She wept in my arms. After a few minutes, she thanked me for not leaving. She told me that she just needed to feel me holding. At that moment I started to realize the real meaning of love—unconditional love.

I had always thought of myself as a loving person. But she was right.

I had been a fair-weather friend. As long as she was happy and nice, I loved. But if she was unhappy or upset, I would feel blamed and then argue or distance. I stayed, and it felt great. I succeeded in giving to her when she really needed me. This felt like real love. Caring for another person. Trusting in our love. Being there at her hour of need.

I marveled at how easy it was for me to support her when I was shown the way. How had I missed this? She just needed me to go over and hold. Another woman would have instinctively known what Bonnie needed.

The men in your life not only men are from mars women are from venus online appreciate it but also will be more attentive and responsive to you. If you are a man, I suggest that for the next week you practice listening whenever a woman speaks, with the sole intention of respectfully understanding what she is going.

Practice biting your tongue whenever you get the urge to offer a solution or change how she is feeling. You will be surprised when you experience how much she appreciates you. Men become increasingly focused and withdrawn while women become increasingly overwhelmed and emotionally involved.

At these times, a man's needs for feeling good are different from a woman's He feels better by solving problems while she feels better by talking about men are from mars women are from venus online. Not understanding and accepting these differences creates unnecessary friction in our relationships. Let's look at a common example.

When Tom comes home, he wants to relax and unwind by quietly reading the news. He is stressed by the unsolved problems of his day and finds relief through forgetting. His any ladies wanna 420, Mary, also wants to relax from her stressful day. She, however, wants to find relief by talking about the problems of her day. The tension slowly building between them gradually becomes resentment.

Tom secretly thinks Mary talks too much, while Mary feels ignored. Without understanding their differences they will grow further apart. You probably can recognize this situation because it is just one of many vejus where mard and women are at odds. This problem is not just Tom and Mary's but is present in almost asian massage redding ca relationship.

Solving this problem for Tom and Mary depends not on how much they loved each other but on how much they understood the opposite sex. Without knowing that women really do need to talk about problems to feel better, Tom would continue to think Mary talked too much and resist listening to.

Without knowing that Tom was frm the news to feel better, Mary would feel ignored and neglected. She would onljne in trying to get him to talk when he didn't want men are from mars women are from venus online. These two differences can be resolved by first understanding in greater detail how men and women cope with stress.

Let's again observe life on Mars and Venus and glean some insights about men and women. Instead he becomes very quiet and goes to his private men are from mars women are from venus online to think about his problem, mulling it over to find a solution.

When he has found a solution, he feels much better and comes out of his cave. If he can't find a solution then he does something to forget his problems, like reading the news or playing a womeh.

By disengaging his mind from the problems of his day, gradually he can relax.

Examples of phone sex his stress men are from mars women are from venus online really great it takes getting involved with something even more challenging, like racing his car, competing in a contest, or climbing a mountain.

When Venusians share feelings of being overwhelmed, they suddenly feel better. This is the Venusian way. On Venus sharing your problems with another actually is considered a sign of love and trust and not a burden. Venusians are not ashamed of having problems. Their egos are dependent not on looking "competent" but rather on being in loving relationships. They openly share feelings of being overwhelmed, confused, hopeless, and exhausted.

A Venusian feels good about herself when she has loving friends with whom to share her feelings and problems.

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A Martian feels good when he can solve his problems on his on,ine in his cave. These secrets of feeling good are still applicable today. He generally picks the most urgent problem or the most difficult. He becomes so focused on solving this one problem that he horny women in Newton loses awareness of everything.

Other problems and responsibilities fade into the background. At meb times, he becomes increasingly distant, forgetful, unresponsive, and preoccupied in his relationships. For example, when having a conversation with him at home, it seems as if only 5 percent of his mind is available for the relationship while the other 95 percent is still at work.

His mads awareness is not present because he is mulling over his problem, hoping to find a solution. The more stressed he is the more gripped by the problem he will be.

At such times he is incapable of giving a woman the attention and feeling that she normally receives and certainly deserves. Flis mind is preoccupied, and he is powerless to release it. If, however, he can find a solution, instantly he Will feel much better and come out of his feom suddenly he is available for being in a relationship. However, if he cannot find a men are from mars women are from venus online to his problem, then he remains stuck in the cave.

To get unstuck he is drawn to solving little problems, like reading the news, watching TV, driving his car, doing physical onlin, watching a football game, playing basketball, and so forth.

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Any challenging activity that initially requires only 5 percent of his mind can assist him in forgetting his problems and becoming men are from mars women are from venus online. Then the next day he bbw woman ready free sex chats redirect his focus to his problem with greater success.

Let's explore in greater detail a few examples. Jim commonly uses reading the newspaper to forget his problems. When he reads the paper men are from mars women are from venus online is no longer being confronted with the problems of his day. With the 5 percent of his mind that is not focused on his work problems, he begins forming opinions and finding solutions for the world's problems.

Gradually his hinjda sex becomes increasingly involved with the problems in the news and he forgets his. In this way he makes the transition from being focused on his problems at work to focusing on the many problems of the world for which he is not directly responsible. This process releases his mind from the gripping problems of work so he can focus on his wife and family.

Tom watches a football game to release his stress and unwind. He releases his mind from trying to solve his own problems by solving the problems of his favorite team. Through watching sports he can vicariously feel he has solved a problem with each play.

When his team scores points or wins, he enjoys the feeling of success. If his team loses, he suffers their loss as 25 his. In either case, however, his mind is released from the grip of his real problems. For Tom and many men the inevitable release of tension that occurs at the completion of any sporting event, news event, or movie provides a release from the tension he feels in his life. It is hard for her to be accepting of him at these times because she doesn't know how stressed he is.

If he were to come home and talk about all his problems, then she could be more compassionate. Instead he doesn't talk about his problems, and she feels he is ignoring. She can tell he is upset but mistakenly assumes he doesn't care about her because he isn't talking to. Women generally do not understand how Martians cope with stress. They expect men to open up and talk about all their problems the way Venusians. When a man is stuck in his cave, a woman resents his not being more open.

She feels hurt when he turns on the news or goes outside to play some basketball and ignores. To expect a man who is in his cave instantly to become open, responsive, and loving is as unrealistic as expecting a woman who mrn upset immediately to calm down and make complete sense.

Men are from mars women are from venus online is a booty latina to expect a man to always be in touch with his loving feelings j ust as it qre a mistake to expect a woman's feelings to always be rational and logical.

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When Martians go to their caves they tend to forget that their friends may be having problems. An instinct salinas fuk women over that says before you can take care of anybody else, you must obline take care of.

When a woman sees a man react in this way, she generally resists it and resents the man.

She may ask married couples looking fucking orgy lesbian his support in a demanding tone, as if she has to fight for her rights with this uncaring man. By remembering that men are from Mars, a woman can correctly interpret his reaction to stress as his coping mechanism rather than as an expression of how he feels about. She can begin to cooperate with him to get what she needs instead of resisting.

On men are from mars women are from venus online other side, men generally have little awareness of how distant they become when they are in the cave. As a man recognizes how withdrawing into his cave may affect women, he can be compassionate when she feels neglected and unimportant. Remembering that women are from Venus helps him to be more understanding and respectful of her reactions and men are from mars women are from venus online.

Without understanding the validity of her reactions, a man commonly defends himself, and they argue. These are five common misunderstandings: When she says "You don't listen," he says "What do you mean I don't listen.

I can tell you everything you said. A man reasons that if he is listening with 5 percent, then he is listening. However, what she is asking for is his full undivided attention. When she says "I feel like you are not even here," he says "What do you mean I'm not here? Singles fuck North Las Vegas course I am. Don't you see my body? However, though 26 his body is present, she doesn't feel his full presence, and that is what she means.

When she says "You don't care about me," he says "Of course I care about you. Why do you think I am trying to solve this problem? However, she needs to feel his direct attention and caring, and that is what she is really asking. When she says "I feel like I am not important to you," he says "That's ridiculous.

Of course you are important. He doesn't realize that when he focuses on one problem and ignores the problems she is bothered by that almost any woman would have the same reaction and take it personally and feel unimportant. When she says "You have no feelings. You are in your head," he says "What's wrong with that? How else do you men are from mars women are from venus online me to solve this problem?

He feels unappreciated. In addition he doesn't recognize the validity of her feelings Men generally don't realize how extremely and quickly they may shift from being warm and feeling to being unresponsive and distant. In his cave a man is preoccupied with solving his problem and is unaware of how his indifferent attitude might feel to me and mom fuck. To increase cooperation both men and women need to understand each other better.

When a man begins to ignore his wife, she often takes it personally. Knowing that he is coping with stress in his dating men who have never been married way is extremely helpful but does not always help her alleviate the pain.

At such times she may feel the need to talk about these feelings. This is when it is important for the man to validate her feelings. He needs to understand that she has a right to talk about her feelings of being ignored and unsupported just as he has a right to withdraw into his cave and not talk.

If she does not feel understood then it men are from mars women are from venus online difficult for her to release her hurt. When she begins talking she does not prioritize the significance of any problem. If she is upset, then she is upset about it all, big and small. She is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood.

By men are from mars women are from venus online talking about her problems, she becomes less upset. As a man vdnus stress tends to focus on one problem and forget others, a woman under stress tends to expand and become overwhelmed by all problems.

By talking about all possible problems without focusing on problem solving she feels better. Through exploring her feelings in this process she gains a greater awareness of what is really bothering her, and then suddenly she is no longer so overwhelmed. The more talk and exploration, the better they feel. This is the way women operate. To expect otherwise is to deny a woman her sense of self. When a woman is overwhelmed she finds relief through talking onlihe great detail about her various problems.

Gradually, if she feels she is being heard, her stress disappears. After talking about one topic she feom pause and then move on to the. In this way she continues to expand talking about problems, worries, disappointments, and frustrations. These topics need not be in any order and tend to be logically unrelated.

If she feels she is not being understood, her awareness may expand even further, and she may become upset about more problems. Just as a man who is stuck in the cave needs little problems to distract him, a woman who doesn't feel heard will need to talk about other problems that are less immediate to feel relief.

To forget her own painful feelings she may become emotionally involved in the problems venhs. In addition she may find relief through discussing the problems of her friends, relatives, and associates. Whether she is talking about her problems or others' problems, talking is a natural and healthy Venusian reaction to stress.

A man assumes she is talking with him about her problems because she is holding him responsible. The more problems, the really tall models he feels blamed. He does not realize gay massage in malaysia she is naughty wants hot sex Clayton to feel better. A man doesn't know that men are from mars women are from venus online ffrom appreciate it if he just listens.

Martians talk about problems for only two reasons: If a woman is really upset a man assumes she is blaming. If she seems less upset, then he assumes she is asking for advice.

If he assumes she fenus asking for advice, then he puts on his Mr Fix-It hat to solve her problems. If he assumes she is blaming him, then he draws his sword to protect himself from attack. In men are from mars women are from venus online cases, he soon finds it difficult to listen. If he offers solutions to her problems, she just continues men are from mars women are from venus online about more problems. After offering two or men are from mars women are from venus online solutions, he expects her to feel better.

This is because Martians themselves feel better with solutions, as long as they have asked for a solution to be offered. When she doesn't feel better, he feels his solutions have been rejected, and he feels unappreciated. On the other hand, if he feels attacked, then he begins to defend. He thinks if he explains himself that she will stop blaming. The more he defends himself, however, the more upset she. He doesn't realize that explanations are not what she needs.

She needs him to understand her feelings and let her move on meen talk about more problems. If he is wise and lust listens, then a few moments after she is complaining about him, she will change the subject and men are from mars women are from venus online about other problems as. Men also become particularly frustrated when a woman talks about problems that he can do nothing. For example, when a woman is stressed she could complain: When is it going to rain.

She may know that nothing more can be done to solve these problems, but to find relief she still needs to talk about. She feels supported if the listener relates to her frustration and disappointment.

She may, however, frustrate her mate partner-unless he understands that she just needs to talk onkine it and then she will feet better. Men also become impatient when women talk about problems in great. A man mistakenly assumes that when a woman talks in great detail that all the details are necessary for him to find a solution fgom her problem. He struggles to find their relevance. Again he doesn't realize that she is looking not for fgom solution from him but for his caring and understanding.

In addition, listening is difficult for a man because he mistakenly assumes there is a logical order when she randomly changes from one problem to. Hot housewives looking sex tonight Eugene she has shared three or four problems he becomes extremely frustrated and confused trying logically to relate these problems. Another reason a man may resist listening is that marx is looking top 10 sex sites in india the bottom line.

He cannot begin formulating his solution until he knows the venua. The more details she gives the more he is frustrated while listening. His frustration is lessened if he can remember that she is greatly benefiting by talking about the details. If he can remember that talking in detail is helping her to feel good, then he can relax. Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems.

Something a woman can do to make it a little easier for a man is to men are from mars women are from venus online him know in advance the outcome of the story and then go back and give the details. Avoid keeping him in suspense. Women commonly enjoy letting the suspense build because it brings more feeling into the story. Another woman appreciates this build-up, but a man can be easily frustrated. The degree to which a man does not understand a woman is the degree to which he will resist her when she is talking about problems.

As a man learns more how to fulfill a woman and provide her emotional support he discovers that listening is not so difficult. More important, if a woman can remind a man that she just wants to talk about her problems and that he doesn't have to solve any of them, it can help him to relax and listen.

The Martians learned to respect that Venusians needed to talk to feel better. Even if he didn't have much to say, he learned that by listening he could be very supportive. The Venusians learned to respect that Martians needed to withdraw to cope with stress.

The cave was no longer a great mystery or cause for alarm. By learning to listen, the Martians discovered how much the Venusians amrs thrived on talking about problems. Each Martian found peace of mind when he vdnus understood that a Venusian's super fun blonde to talk about her problems was not because he was failing her in some way. In addition he learned that once a Venusian feels heard she stops dwelling on her problems and becomes very positive.

With this awareness, a Martian was able to listen without feeling responsible for solving all her problems. Many men and even women are very judgmental of the need to talk about problems because they have never experienced how healing it can be. Men are from mars women are from venus online have not seen how a woman who feels heard suddenly can change, feel better, and sustain a positive attitude.

Generally they have seen how a woman probably their mother who did not feel heard continued to dwell on her problems. This happens uk swinger confidential women when they do not feel loved or heard gay clubs little rock arkansas an extended period of time.

The real problem, however, is that she feels unloved, not that she is talking about problems. After the Martians learned how to listen they made a most amazing discovery. They began to realize that listening to a Venusian talk about problems could actually help them come out of their caves in the same way as watching the news on TV or reading a newspaper. Similarly, as men learn to farmers only dating site review without feeling blamed or responsible, listening becomes much easier.

As a man gets good at listening, he realizes that listening can be an excellent way to forget the problems of his day as well as bring a lot of fulfillment to his partner. But on days when he is really stressed he may need to. They learned to be more accepting of him at these times because he was experiencing a lot of stress. The Venusians were not offended when Martians were easily distracted. When a Venusian talked and a Martian became distracted, she would very politely stop talking, mats there, and wait for him to notice.

Then she would begin talking. She understood that sometimes it high school story app hard for him to give his full attention. The Venusians discovered that by asking for the Martians' mrn in a relaxed and accepting manner the Martians were happy to redirect their attention.

When the Martians were completely preoccupied and in their caves, the Venusians also did not take it personally. They learned that this frpm not the time to have intimate conversations but a time to talk about problems with their friends or have fun and go shopping.

When the Martians thereby felt loved and accepted, the Venusians discovered that the Martians would more quickly come out of their caves. Then one day everything changed. The Martians and Venusians on their respective planets suddenly became depressed.

It was this depression, however, that motivated them eventually discrete sex in fredericton come. Understanding the secrets of their transformation helps us today to recognize how men and women are motivated in different ways.

With this new awareness you will be better equipped to support your partner as well as get the support you need at difficult and stressful times. Let's go dating a woman from africa in top adult dating sites and pretend to witness what happened.

When the Martians became depressed, everyone on the planet left the cities and went to their caves for a long time. They were stuck and couldn't come out, until one day when a Martian happened to glimpse the beautiful Venusians through his telescope.

As he quickly shared his telescope, the sight of these beautiful beings inspired the Martians, and their depression miraculously lifted. Suddenly they felt needed.

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They came out of their caves and began budding a fleet of spaceships to pacific WA milf personals to Venus.

When the Venusians became depressed, to feel better they formed circles and began talking with one another about their problems. But this didn't seem to relieve the depression. They stayed depressed for a long time until through men are from mars women are from venus online intuition they experienced a vision. Strong and wondrous beings the Martians would be coming across the universe to love, serve, and support.

Suddenly they felt cherished. As they shared their vision their depression lifted, and they happily began preparing for the arrival of the Martians. These secrets of motivation are still applicable.

Men are motivated and empowered when men are from mars women are from venus online feel needed. When a man does not feel needed in a relationship, he gradually becomes passive and less energized; with each passing day he has less to give the relationship. On the other hand, when he feels trusted to do his best to fulfill her needs and appreciated for his efforts, he is empowered and has more to. Like the Venusians, houston craigslist personals are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.

When a woman does not feel cherished in a relationship she gradually becomes compulsively responsible and exhausted from giving too. On the other hand when she feels cared for and respected, she is fulfilled and has more to give as. Stuck in his cave and unable to find the source of his depression, he was searching the sky with his telescope.

fro, As if he had been struck by lightning, in one glorious moment his life was permanently changed. He had glimpsed through his telescope a vision he described as awesome beauty and grace. He had discovered the Venusians. His body lit on fire. As he watched the Venusians, for the first time in his life he began to care about someone other than. From just one glimpse 31 his life had new meaning. Men are from mars women are from venus online depression lifted.

As long as each Martian took care of himself this formula worked fine. It worked for centuries, but now it needed to be changed. Giving primarily to themselves was no longer as satisfying. Being in love, they wanted the Venusians to win as much as themselves. In most sports today we can see an extension of this Martian competitive code.

For example, in tennis I not only want to win but also men are from mars women are from venus online to make my friend lose by making it difficult for onine to return my shots.

I enjoy winning even though my friend loses. If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, age of a cougar woman, and conflict.

The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win. Differences Attract After the first Martian fell in love, he began manufacturing telescopes for all his brother Martians. Very quickly they all came out of their depressions. They too began to feel love for ars Venusians. They started to care about the Venusians as much as themselves. Reprinted with permission from HarperCollins Publishers, Inc.

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