My partner pauses mid-makeout.
He gets a primal glint in his eye. I hang on to his neck and attempt a perfunctory makeout. In theory, I like being picked up.
Pifk women do not like being picked up, so when in doubt— and you should always be a little bit in doubt —ask. Never do. But as a dramatic element of foreplay, I approve.
But, much like shower sexit is rarely done correctly. When I polled friends about this, one described being lifted up under her armpits like a baby.
pik Then she looked haunted: The problem is gravity, and the solution is simple: Use your manly arms to hold her up by her thighs. I know it looks passionate and sexy in movies when a man, holding a woman around her waist, lifts her off the ground.
That's not romance, it's cross-training. Websites dating practice, when you pick someone up, your only objective is to swiftly and firmly support her from. Then, slowly, so she has time to adjust her weight, move your other hand under her other thigh.
You should feel your arms working. She should ho be working at all. If your partner does not immediately wrap her legs around you in the cinematic manner, look around for something waist-height that she can balance her weight on.
A desk or a kitchen counter are both safe options. The stove is not!!!!!! The only thing worse than a macho show of strength is a failed macho show of strength.